How to Win Back the Love of Your Life After Cheating

Do you love someone but completely messed it up? Losing the love of your life is one of the saddest things that can happen to anyone. Especially when you know there's no one to blame but yourself. But thing is if they're the love of your life & you're theirs, then it's possible to get them back.


Steps

1. 1
   Be honest. You just cheated on the love of your life. You need to look deep inside yourself to figure out why you did this and then be completely honest with your partner. Whatever trust they had in you is going to be completely shattered and lying about what you've done is only going to make matters worse. Step up and be open about what you've done.
2. 2
   Apologize. Say that you're sorry and beg for forgiveness. What you did was your fault. Not hers/his. You need to let them know that as they will struggle to deal with what you've done.
3. 3
   Cut off all contact. If you haven't already, end things with the other party now!Adviseably do it with your partner so that they can see that this other person means nothing to you and that you want to be with your partner and your partner only.
4. 4
   Communicate. Your partner is going to no longer be able to trust you. If you really love them and want them back then you're going to have to make a few sacrifices of your own. Tell them everything they want to know. Be honest & open. If they want your passwords or want to see your phone, do it. They may not do anything with it, but showing them that you're willing to be honest and completely open your life to them is the first step to gaining back their trust and showing how much you love them.
5. 5
   Accommodate. The love of your life is going to be hurting a lot and most likely the only person they want to turn to is the person that has done the hurting. So if they ask you for something do it. If they ask for space, give it to them. If they ask you to spend more time with them, spend more time. Show how much your willing to do for them.
6. 6
   Fight. Yes you made a mistake. A massive one. But if you truly love this person and you know that they love you then fight for what you had. Remind them of all the happy times you spent together. Buy them flowers with meanings all the time. Buy them jewellery that shows how much you love and care for them. Shower them with gifts. Be romantic and make them feel special & loved, after all they are the love of your life.

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